Today, I experienced the power of an honest, brave moment with a friend. It was so cathartic that I had to share. The transition from summer to back-to-school has been a little difficult for me. I woke up this morning feeling a little confused and exhausted. Why? I don’t know. My boys have been in school since last week. I’ve been able to work and exercise. It makes no sense. But, I powered through and went to my exercise class anyway.
When I got to my class, I saw my girlfriend and said the usual, “Hey! How are you?!”. She replied back something like, “Good (long pause)…. ok, not so good. I don’t know what it is, but I’m just not doing that good because summer is over and everything is ramping up with schedules, sports etc. I had to journal this morning.” I think my eyes immediately welled up with tears. She was speaking my language. I, too, had been journaling to try and figure out my emotions around summer. It was like she was talking straight to my heart while at the same time mending it.
I’m so grateful for this brave friend who told me how she felt in the moment. She didn’t wait until after she had it figured out and was happy again (like I usually do. Once I figure it out and feel happy again, then I’ll talk about it.). No, she was brave. She was right in the moment struggling, and she was honest. It meant so much because I was right in the moment, too. It reminded me of this Brené Brown video…
Now, I’ve lived long enough to know that you can’t be vulnerable like this with everyone. Some will look at you like you have three eyes, or they’ll just feel pity for you and come up with some quick solution, so I’ll tread lightly. After all, boundaries are healthy. But, wouldn’t it be wonderful if I could have more of these moments?
You speak my language. This is one of my favorite Brene videos. I’ve shared it often. The beautiful moments of our lives when we live and speak authentically are the best! Thanks for sharing yours.
Well said. I agree!
Thank you for sharing! I am feeling the exact same way! It is good to know I am not alone.
You’re soooo not alone. *hug
You just did the same thing your friend at the gym did ~ for your readers. YOU are always brave to share your struggles like this one ~ it truly makes us all feel less alone with our own struggles. Thank you, and we’re WITH YOU!
Thank you, Phyllis.
I’ve been told that when you are authentic with yourself and your share it with others, you allow them to be authentic with themselves. Makes for much better relationships with yourself and others. Thank you for sharing your story and I hope you find some peace in the transition to Fall. It is an emotional time for a lot of people. You are not alone.
Thank you, Jules.